"I have no expectation for you or for me that we will be able to be utterly free of this mind-set. It's a very powerful one, this idea that adults are the boss, a notion that most people will never question, let alone examine. And even those of us who are fully aware, still, in unguarded moments, often fall into the language habits of command, not just with our children, but with our spouses, friends and colleagues. It's a pervasive thing. If we work on it, however, if we're reflective and conscious, our children won't be as likely to develop the habit as they become adults."

Really thought-provoking article (as always) on challenging our hierarchies and our need to be in control as the grown-ups. (Follow-up here: http://teachertomsblog.blogspot.com/2011/08/spoiled-brats.html; via Facebook rounds — I'm not sure who started it!)

Can you imagine the heartache of not being with your children? Can you help fly a mama home to bring her little boy to live with her?

#6 killed me. That's what's stopping me, too. All in good fun, what are the hippie lengths you refuse to go to? (And, remember, never say never…hee.)

I've found a bunch of great posts to read through this linkup! Put up your own post & let others know where to find it.

These tips would be awesome to pass along to a new mama. I felt like I had to relearn NIP for this baby, even! It's good to remember these small ideas to make you less self-conscious during that learning phase.

Baring skin and soul to show what true beauty is. (via BlogHer)

On body acceptance and what we pass on to our children.

Michelle of http://womanseekingmother.blogspot.com/ needs our support. Will you please send a note or baby shower gift to bless the birth of her second child?

Love this Bossypants prayer. (via Rachel)