About Hobo Mama

hobo mamaLauren Wayne, writer and mother. Riding the rails with my husband, Crackerdog Sam, and my hobo baby, Mikko Lint Picker, and a baby on the way. Trying every day to parent intentionally and with grace.

That's the short version.

I am a wife, a mother, a daughter, a sister. I have wanted to be a writer since I was ten years old, and I have found a passion in blogging.

Parenting has changed me profoundly and has given me a new perspective and a new obsession. It was parenting that opened the door for me to write often about a topic I find compelling and inspiring.


BabyLegs model


This is the form my inspiration takes: Mikko (pronounced MEE-ko). He was born in June 2007 so is currently 3 and a half years old and astonishingly enjoyable. He teaches me more every day of what it means to be spontaneous, attached, and freaking hilarious.

newborn baby sling wrap mom dad


Mikko weighed 11 pounds, 13 ounces, when he was born — a natural birth after a hospital transfer from our planned home birth. We were all surprised at how big he was, and I was so proud I was able to deliver him naturally as I'd planned — not because birth is a contest, but just because it was such a rush. I can't even describe the euphoria I felt after I saw my baby and knew what my body had been able to do.

Speaking of babies, we have one more on the way — to be born in May or June 2011. Hooray!

eleventh anniversary 2009


Sam said not to put a picture of him up here, but I can't resist, since he's so cute. We were married in June 1998. I know that was a long time ago, but I was a teenage bride.

(Not really.)

Sam and I work from home selling DVDs online — until my amazing writing career takes off and takes care of us. Then we will be jetting to London and texting back and forth to my agent as we do something or other fabulous. But, for the moment, we enjoy the freedom working from home gives us to be together as a family, even though it creates some logistical challenges, in terms of keeping a preschooler from trying to "help" whoever's trying to work. It's hard to type when a three-year-old's banging on your keyboard, for instance.

Speaking of writing, I've written one full novel and two half-novels. I maintain way too many several blogs, including Hobo Mama, Hobo Mama Reviews, and LaurenWayne.com, as well as having cofounded Natural Parents Network. I was an English major in college and still retain a geeky appreciation of grammar.

breastfeeding mama and baby nursing


My parenting philosophies run toward the crunchy, but I'm still very pragmatic. I advocate for breastfeeding, natural birth, babywearing, cloth diapering, elimination communication, gentle discipline, attachment parenting, and all the usual suspects. It's working great for us so far.

Most of my real-life friends (and they are still friends) parent differently, so I've enjoyed finding a supportive community online to encourage me. In general, I've been amazed at how much I enjoy the community aspect of blogging, considering I started blogging into the ether, not expecting anyone to listen in.

I co-host the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting, so check that out as either a reader or a participant if you're interested in similar topics and in connecting to other like-minded parents.

family on the beach


You can connect with me on Twitter and Facebook: friend and fan. You can email me at mail {at} HoboMama.com or use my contact form.

I love to make myself available, even though I am absolutely terrible at returning emails, phone calls, comments, and direct messages. But don't let that stop you. I read and appreciate them all.

I'll open up the floor. Anything you want to know? Leave a comment or sent me an email, and it's possible I'll eventually respond!

family on the ferry

family photo august 2010 3 years old


GUEST POSTS


AWARDS & ASSOCIATIONS


NaNoWriMo 2009 WINNER
One Lovely Blog Award

The International Breastfeeding Symbol Parent With Gentle Love -- My World Edenwild
Attachment Parenting International Attachment Parenting International month Oct 2009

Ditch the Disposables Challenge 2009 International Babywearing Week Sept 2009

9 comments:

Chrystal @ Happy Mothering said...

Hi Lauren!

We have a lot in common and I really enjoy reading your blog. So much so that I am passing this award onto you. Take care!

Chrystal @ Happy Mothering

Green Grrrl said...

So glad I stumbled upon your blog today. A new favourite to get caught up with. :) Always happy to read the thoughts of a smart, natural, AP momma.

Blessings,
Tobi-Dawne Smith.

http://td365.wordpress.com/

janasmama said...

My husband works from home and his name is also Sam! We've been working from home for 6 years now. Started in the kitchen when our first was born, moved to a bedroom then to the garage. Now that we have three children his in a building that sits separate from the house. Now he can actually get things done. It was quite the challenge for me to begin with but we sail through the days now.

Your family is beautiful and that is amazing that your body birthed your baby! That is no small feat to carry an 11+ pound baby in your abdomen!

Your joy is contagious and thank you for the light hearted, fun-loving inspiration.

Elisa, Croatia said...

You have a beautiful family! happy birthday to Mikko! wow 3 years old! My daughter just turned 2..yeah she is an independent little person.(so much for the 'terrible two's..She is teaching me about patience and being spontaneous...)

Now off to read your other web and I will be poking around,

Anna said...

Glad to have stumbled across your blog via 5minutesformom. I love your philosophy on parenting.
All the best,
Anna

Lissa said...

Hi Lauren.
I just discovered your blog and what a wealth of information and wonderful posts!! I have really enjoyed my last couple of days of reading through what I have missed. I too have one son and another one due in early June '11. So fun to read your comments on that too.
Keep writing, it is fantastic!

Heather B (HomemadeMom) said...

Don't remember what google search brought me to you, but I'm glad it did! Great blog!

Anonymous said...

I love your blog. thanks for making this happy mother feel normal to breastfeed my two year old son!thanks for telling it like it is also. it helps.

Lavender Luz said...

What a beautiful family, and congrats on your latest addition!

I'm in awe that you've pumped out a novel (or 2 or 3).

Your blog has a wonderful feel, Lauren.

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