I love my children's
imaginary friends. I recently reread
my post on Silly Guy to Mikko, now 9.5 years old, and we were both tickled at the details we'd forgotten as Silly Guy faded from our lives. To that end, I record:
Little Sunshine.
Little Sunshine originally was, I believe,
an isopod, or
roly poly, that Alrik spotted one day as we walked along the beach a couple years back. Alrik already had established a habit of naming tiny critters we passed, often ants, and telling me their given monikers were things like Rainbow and Cutie. He's never seen
the movie with a related title, so I'm assuming Little Sunshine is just something else his brain came up with.
We watched the real-life Little Sunshine crawl along the sidewalk and then disappear down a sewer grate. Isopods, I've learned, are crustaceans and need damp environments to breathe through their gills. In case you were interested. Your call.
But Little Sunshine's disappearance was not his departure from our lives. Oh, no. Alrik, then about age 3,
kept talking to him as we continued our walk, and I was obliged to keep up Little Sunshine's end of the conversation.
Does your mind go blank when your child says,
"Tell me a story!" before bedtime? I'm a professional writer of fiction, and I can't tell a children's story on cue to save my life. I've decided spontaneous storytelling is its own skill, and I needed to find a workaround. In case you're in the same boat, I will share it with you.
Just to burst your bubble right away, it's a terrible story. I'm just saying,
it works. My five-year-old loves the structure of it and wants to participate in it every night by telling the first part himself. I like that it's adaptable to both creative and literal-minded children, because you invite their feedback, and they can embellish the details as much as they want, or not. It also gives you as the parent an opportunity to feel "homeschool parent-y" by slipping in a little pop quiz about whatever topics you want. (You'll see.)
Once upon a time, there was a …
Now you ask your children what there was. Is it an animal? Is it a person? What's this character's name? What do they look like? Let's say it's this:
… purple giant chicken, and it was friends with …
Another round of character development!
… a friendly and unusually small spinosaurus. They really wanted to …