I discovered this post in the archives and thought it was a positive message worth repeating. Even for those of us — especially those of us — who have troubles with breastfeeding, it's nice to know we'll have plenty of opportunities to keep practicing or figuring out a different system that works.
Mikko breastfeeding at 9 months old
Take two: As I said before, you get a lot of chances to practice breastfeeding.
The other day, Mikko made a big sucking sound, and I joked to him, "You call that a latch? Do it right!" I say such things for my own amusement, of course, and realize I'll have to stop once he's learned how to speak, so I'll enjoy it for now.
It got me thinking, though, that, while it's funny (to me) to yell at a nine-month-old for doing something poorly, he really should be an expert at breastfeeding at this point, and in fact he is. He corrected his latch immediately and got right back on.
I started doing the math, and estimating conservatively at an average of 10 feeds a day, I got the astounding figure of 2,700 nursing sessions since birth.
If you do something 2,700 times, you get good at it. Both of us are breastfeeding pros now, in nine (pretty) short months, and of course it didn't take us that full time to become so expert.
I mention this as encouragement to new mothers moving into breastfeeding in a postpartum fog and wondering if it will ever feel natural. You'll get lots of chances to practice. If you "mess up" one try, another will come along in a matter of minutes or hours. You and your baby both are learning, and your opportunities to get it right will come along easily and naturally.
How long did it take for breastfeeding to feel natural for you? If you had problems with breastfeeding, how long did it take for you to settle into whatever feeding rhythm you moved into?