Thursday, October 31, 2013

Inspiring a simpler, more mindful holiday season

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Mindful Holidays eBundle Sale - 7 inspiring eProducts on sale until November 4!Even though the holiday season is supposed to be a season of reconnection, closeness, and love, for many of us, it's also a stressful time, with too much to be done, more mess and activity than we're used to, and sometimes conflict between people with complicated histories.

So I'm pleased to bring you the Mindful Holidays eBundle Sale, organized by my affiliate partner Mindful Nurturing in collaboration with the Nourished Living Network. These 7 eProducts will inspire a peaceful holiday, including simple homemade decorating and gift ideas, 3-month access to a virtual yoga class, tips for cooking with kids, holiday recipes, and more. Total retail value is $69.09, and this sale is available only from October 28 to November 4.

The Mindful Holidays bundle was created to offer a selection of resources to help us through this time of year with joy and laughter instead of conflict and stress. Check out these heartwarming contributions and get your holiday season off to the best start:

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Wordless Wednesday: Toofles

Toofles == Hobo Mama
11 months

Toofles == Hobo Mama
6 years

That next one is just about to fall out, too!

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Books you'll love from natural-parenting reviewers

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I am proud and honored to be a co-founder of Natural Parents Network (NPN), a community of natural-minded parents and parents-to-be where you will be informed, empowered, and inspired — and to work with the many fabulous volunteers who keep NPN running.

When you visit NPN’s website you can find articles and posts about Activism, Balance, Consistent Care, Ecological Responsibility, Family Safety, Feeding With Love, Gentle Discipline, Healthy Living, Holistic Health, Natural Learning, Nurturing Touch, Parenting Philosophies, Practical Home Help, Preparing for Parenting, Responding With Sensitivity, Safe Sleep, and so much more!

The volunteers who dedicate their time and energy to make NPN the outstanding resource it is also spend countless hours informing and inspiring others on their personal blogs.

This month, the Natural Parents Network volunteers are sharing posts that celebrate books and reading! You will read posts that share some of our volunteers' favorite books and books they recommend you read for the sheer joy of reading. Other posts outline recommended reading as it relates to a wide variety of natural parenting topics. You will also find posts that outline favorite children’s books as well as books that inspire learning or have an educational focus. And, of course, no reading list would be complete without our volunteers' favorite cookbooks and health resources!


Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Wordless Wednesday: Family at the falls

Family at the falls == Hobo Mama
We decided to head back to Franklin Falls for a family hike.

Family at the falls == Hobo Mama
We last went there when Mikko was 3.

Family at the falls == Hobo Mama
Here he is now at 6.

Family at the falls == Hobo Mama
And we have this little dude now, too, who was fascinated by this dog who would cheerfully fetch sticks for anyone.

Family at the falls == Hobo Mama
The big boys decided it was smart to head out across the creek by balancing on the rocks. Their shoes disagreed, but they had fun.

Monday, October 21, 2013

Calling for submissions for the November 2013 Carnival of Natural Parenting: Feeding Your Family

We continue to be delighted with the inspiration and wisdom our Carnival of Natural Parenting participants share, and we hope you'll join us for the next carnival in November 2013! (Check out October, September, August, July, June, May, April, March, January, and a summary of all our 2012 posts and 2011 posts if you missed any.)

Your co-hosts are Lauren at Hobo Mama and Dionna at Code Name: Mama.

Here are the submission details for November 2013:

Calling for submissions for the November 2013 Carnival of Natural Parenting: Feeding Your Family == Hobo Mama
Theme: Feeding Your Family: How do you keep your family nourished? Does your family practice a special diet or deal with food allergies? If so, how do holidays look different for you since starting a special diet? Do you practice baby-led solids or have tips and recipes to share?

Deadline: Tuesday, November 5. Fill out the webform (at the link or at the bottom) and email your submission to us by 11:59 p.m. Pacific time: CarNatPar {at} NaturalParentsNetwork.com

Carnival date: Tuesday, November 12. Before you post, we will send you an email with a little blurb in html to paste into your submission that will introduce the carnival. You will publish your post on November 12 and email us the link if you haven't done so already. Once everyone's posts are published by noon Eastern time, we will send out a finalized list of all the participants' links to generate lots of link love for your site! We'll include full instructions in the email we send before the posting date.

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Wordless Wednesday: Date night

Date night == Hobo Mama
Guess who got to go on a date with this guy.

Date night == Hobo Mama
This girl! Woot.

Thanks to babysitting swapping with Shannon, I get to be spoiled with undisturbed time to TALK with my HUSBAND. I know! It's amazing. Did I mention we were NOT interrupted every thirty seconds? Seriously!

Date night == Hobo Mama
I was quite taken with this smiling puffer fish at the entrance. I was also a wee bit tipsy. I didn't realize how strong my drink was — good thing Sam could be my designated driver!

Date night == Hobo Mama
We decided to walk down to the lake since we had a little time left. Sam lent me his jacket (so chivalrous!) since I wasn't drunk enough to be warm.

Date night == Hobo Mama
We fantasized that we were fabulously rich and one of those floating homes was our vacation house. There was a sign up saying the last slips are being sold, so we'd better get on it!

Sunday, October 13, 2013

Sunday Surf: Pirate play dough

Welcome to the Sunday Surf, a tour of the best blogposts I've read throughout the week.

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Sunday Surf: Pirate play dough == Hobo Mama
In the spirit of letting kids do art, my child and this sweet little pirate have been doing a lot of Play-Doh this week.

Links!


Friday, October 11, 2013

Counterculture as an identity

Counterculture as an identity == Hobo Mama

I've been thinking a lot about being countercultural and what that means. I've decided I don't want being countercultural to be my identity, and I'll explain why.

Humans are social creatures, meaning that we live in social groups and communicate a lot (a lot! talking, texting, body language, written language — we are so much more openly and complexly communicative than any other species). We want to get along with the other members of our social group(s), and this is where culture comes in. Each group sets up rules about what meets the criteria of the group, i.e., culture.

What does my group eat? What does my group wear? Where and how do we live? What do we do for work and play? What language do we speak? What gods do we worship?

It all becomes enshrined in an (admittedly ever-morphing) concept called culture.

As crunchy-granola, earth-goddess, attachment-parenting, hippie types, we often feel we're working, quite consciously, against our dominant culture.

You put your baby to sleep in a mini-jail? My baby sleeps snuggled against my warm body.

You feed your baby with a rubber teat? I feed my baby from my own breasts.

You push your child around in a wheeled chair? I carry my baby in my arms.

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Wordless Wednesday: Four eyes

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Four eyes == Hobo Mama
The grandparents gave goofy glasses to our littles.

Four eyes == Hobo Mama
It's particularly attractive with the missing tooth, no?

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Raising kids who love TV


Welcome to the October 2013 Carnival of Natural Parenting: Kids and Technology

This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Code Name: Mama and Hobo Mama. This month our participants have written about their families' policies on screen time.





Raising kids who love TV == Hobo Mama
He figured out the remote early.

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Sometimes I feel sheepish admitting how much I love television. In the natural world, it's decidedly unhippy because children should be playing with only handcarved wooden toys and spending eight hours a day frolicking in dandelions. In the parenting world, it's considered downright reckless, what with the brain rotting and all. And just in regular discourse, TV is too low-brow to impress anybody.

Particularly if you're not all that discriminating about what you'll watch. I will watch many, many different shows — and do. I mean, I watch Masterpiece Theatre, but I've also watched Toddlers & Tiaras. Sam's a big fan of TV, too, with his own favorites; we watch a lot of detective shows together, and he tracks football games on his own. And our children are the same with their beloved shows. Alrik's mantra is "Taillou, Taillou!" (well, that's how he says it!) and Mikko's is … watching whatever is on.

The other day, I was fretting: What does a child look like when he grows up if he loves TV a lot? What sort of person is he if he adores "screen time" and lives great quantities of his life online? What if even his profession is tied to a screen — and then his free time, his relaxing choice, is also to enjoy a movie or show?

Oh — it finally occurred to me: 

He'll look like me!

Well. That's all right, then. I'm pretty fine with me.

Monday, October 7, 2013

Let go of the Pinterest ideal for crafts, and embrace the messiness of art

Let go of the Pinterest ideal for crafts and embrace the messiness of art == Hobo Mama

Sometimes I get intimidated by all the perfect Pinterest crafts. I'm sure you've been there, too, and know what I'm talking about. This isn't Pinterest-bashing or even Pinterest-lamenting (I'm there, all the time), just: My standards are a lot lower.

They need to be.

First of all, I have kids who don't like to follow directions. Like, ever. It took until this year (age 6) that Mikko even began to grasp the concept of coloring inside lines. He still refuses to color things the expected colors. I'm totally down with this, truth be told.

So if I put out some printables and art supplies with very specific ideas of how these elements would go together, I'd be sure to be disappointed. That's just how it is around here.

We do much better putting out the art supplies and then … that's it. Just letting the kids loose.

The results are very rarely frame-worthy — or pin-worthy. But the kids are creating and exploring and having fun.

Let go of the Pinterest ideal for crafts and embrace the messiness of art == Hobo Mama Let go of the Pinterest ideal for crafts and embrace the messiness of art == Hobo Mama

MaryAnn F. Kohl, author of Mudworks — 100+ recipe ideas for modeling-dough play — 
has an article where she discusses the differences between "art" and "crafts," and I thought it was very insightful, and reassuring.

Because art and crafts are so different, it's good to know what makes them special and call them by their proper names. When children create art, they are exploring, discovering, and thinking. Art encourages a child's originality and unique expression with an unknown outcome. Crafts, on the other hand, involve the child's reproducing an adult's idea, while following directions to make a specific "thing" — a known outcome. Making crafts is about imitating what an adult has made and, as such, it requires no original thinking. Crafts are meant to be useful or practical, or to reinforce a fact or learning theme. Craft activities have value in this way, but art is a unique form of creativity that inspires each individual child to be original and inventive and to think for himself.

Sunday, October 6, 2013

Travel games and fun when bored

This post is part of my special HAVE KIDS, WILL TRAVEL series to give you advice and wisdom on traveling with kids along with some fun reviews of travel-friendly items.

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Travel games and fun while waiting == Hobo Mama

Do you ever wish you had more travel games in mind than looking for letters on license plates to stave off the hours of "Are we there yet"? Do you ever need something fun to do while waiting in a doctor's office or at a restaurant? Would you like these ideas to be easy to manage, creative, fun for a range of ages, and screen-free?

Sweet!

Travel games and fun while waiting == Hobo MamaWhen I was putting together the Mindful Play eBundle, I was so excited to read Freaky Rivet's How To Fool Your Kids Into Having Fun So You Can: Travel Games Without Gadgets (great name, hey?) because: We were about to go on an epic Midwest trip! And we could really use all those things I just mentioned!

When I gushed to Iyas, the author, about how much I loved this book, he asked that I consider posting a review, so: I am!

Here's an example screenshot of what sort of fun to expect:

Travel games and fun while waiting == Hobo Mama

Monster toothpaste and Alphabet Glue

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Monster toothpaste and Alphabet Glue == Hobo Mama

Do you have anyone in your family who loves one or more of the following?
  • science experiments
  • craft projects
  • books
Everyone loves all three, you say? Thought so.

Then you will want to hear about our experiences with the e-magazine Alphabet Glue and the Monster Toothpaste we created therefrom!

As the website describes this delightful e-magazine, you'll find:

activities and inspiration for families who love books

There are two autumn-themed issues of this e-magazine included in the Mindful Play eBundle (which ends Monday, October 7!). I've greatly enjoyed those and found Alphabet Glue to be one of my absolute favorites of this bundle as I was hand-picking the resources.

In the submission process, I also got a peek into a summer issue, Volume Thirteen. The boys and I decided to do an experiment from the (PDF) pages: Monster Toothpaste. The name alone makes you want to try it out, am I right?

Monster toothpaste and Alphabet Glue == Hobo Mama
Alrik helped me stir the yeast.

Monster toothpaste and Alphabet Glue == Hobo Mama
Mikko was in charge of color mixing.

Monster toothpaste and Alphabet Glue == Hobo Mama
The scientists at work.

Monster toothpaste and Alphabet Glue == Hobo Mama
The bottles are ready.

Monster toothpaste and Alphabet Glue == Hobo Mama
Mikko carefully pours the yeast into the peroxide mixture —
what's going to happen next?

Monster toothpaste and Alphabet Glue == Hobo Mama
Alrik waits.

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Giveaway: Rock out with Monster N-Tune HD headphones! — $150 ARV {11.1; US}


Hobo Mama Giveaway: Rock out with Monster N-Tune HD headphones! — $150 ARVI don't know about you, but my headphones tend to be the free ones that come bundled with some other electronic purchase and then fall apart after a couple rounds with the kids and cats. (No, I know cats don't wear headphones — earbuds would just fall right in! — but that doesn't mean they don't think the cords are intriguing….)

But I've always wanted better. I even shop around for headphones from time to time and then get befuddled. That's why I was so excited to review the Monster N-Tune HD headphones in a cool candy blue.

I mention the color upfront, because: Whoa! I was seriously so happy to open the box and see that bright blueberry staring me in the face. It's such a sweet change from boring old black. (This candy colours collection also comes in cherry red, green apple, tangerine, and grape.)

I also love how old-school yet hip they are. When I was growing up (gather round, children!), I always loved my parents' huge, ear-covering headphones, but it seems like the world's gone earbud. It's refreshing to have banded headphones that are soft and cushy as they cover your ears.

Hobo Mama Giveaway: Rock out with Monster N-Tune HD headphones! — $150 ARV
You know that mentioning cats wearing earphones made me need to take a picture of it.

Wordless Wednesday: Who is that masked boy?

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Who is that masked boy? == Hobo Mama
Playing with scissors is always a good pastime.

Who is that masked boy? == Hobo Mama
Alrik shows off his foam fringe skills.

Who is that masked boy? == Hobo Mama
And then models a Mikko creation!